Take Action

  • Stay together.  Go out in groups and stay in public places.
  • Agree on a plan for leaving and getting home.  Don’t leave without friends.
  • Discourage alcohol and drug use.  Watch out for friends who are drinking or using drugs.
  • If your friend has been drinking, don’t leave them alone.  Don’t let them leave with others and discourage sexual activity.
  • Don’t let friends drink from open containers or leave drinks unattended.  Be knowledgeable about drug facilitated sexual assault.
  • Ask your friends about  plans and when to plan you to return.  Ask for a number to reach them.  Find out who they are going out with and what they are doing.
  • Encourage them to be honest about sexual limits.

 

Be Aware
  • Share knowledge of the likelihood of possessive behaviors and sexist comments and degrading behaviors leading to violence with friends.
  • Alcohol and drug use increases vulnerability; talk about alcohol and drug use with friends.
  • Ask your friends who they are involved with and spending time with. 
  • No matter what decisions someone makes, sexual violence is never the victim’s fault.